Updated: Oct 27, 2019
"I will be waiting here.... For your silence to break, For your soul to shake, For your love to wake!" – Rumi.
The Twin Flame reunion is a complex process that takes time to unfold. For the reunion to occur, both twins have to go through deep healing and emotional clearing. This process will bring to the surface our worst feelings and thoughts. Sometimes we will love our twins and some others we will hate them. Even so, the deep love and longing for them will force you to do the inner work to heal and become the best version of yourself.
For some twins it might be difficult to transcend the pain and drama of the Twin Flame relationship. We might feel the need for justice in our situation and the desire to witness karma play out against all beings who oppose the union. The truth is that these feelings are troubling you and causing you pain. The need for justice will never bring peace to your heart.
But what can we do about it when we have been tremendously hurt? Choose love. The Twin Flame journey is for those strong beings who are able to forgive and spread their love with others. Look at your situation with compassion and you will find out that those people who hurt you, did it because they are hurt themselves. Because they lack love and joy in their hearts.
And about your twin? Acknowledge that one of you was not ready to commit to the relationship. One of you (or maybe both) was not ready to experience unconditional love and embody it. But have compassion for them, because they will rise and they will heal. The universe will make sure they do. Do you think God would have let you meet them if the reunion wasn’t possible? Of course not! Everything happens for a reason and what you have to do is work on yourself and be patient. The union didn’t happen in the first place because you both deserved better.
So what next? Give up. Yes, give up the need to control the situation. Surrender to the will of God and trust that she/he had a greater plan for both of you. When has God failed you? Even if you can’t perceive it right now, everything in your life has happened for your greatest good. Trust in God and the divine timing of this connection.
Don’t cling to the outcome. Send love to your twin without expecting a response from them. Forgive them if they have hurt you. Allow them the chance to grow at their own pace and continue with your life. They will come back when they are ready. And remember that you both share the same energy, meaning that if you heal and rise, the will do it too.
Thanks for joining me! With love and light, Dulce Gabriela.
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